Relationships

What is it that makes us feel wanted? Feel loved? To feel belonged to one special person? Is that why we are called 'social animals'??

It's the drive in us that keeps us going in want, in search of that one person who will make us feel special, loved and cared for. Everyone at some point of time in life reaches this stage. No one can live as an island.

Some of us have our share of heartbreaks on our journey to find that one person we're looking for. I guess that's how we learn from our mistakes. It teaches us 'what not to go for'. Just like as children we learn what food tastes good and what doesn't. Dealing with that heartbreak is what determines the way ahead. Some of us let it get the better of us and hence we choose not to try again, remain in our shattered state of heart and mind. Some of us choose to move on, keeping in mind the lessons we've learnt from our mistakes. To get up, and walk straight ahead is not an easy task. It needs courage, strength and determination to get going, get moving on in life. Its the hope that helps us to get going that sooner or later we will find what we've been looking for...hope is like that dim light at the end of an endless tunnel. There's nothing like the joy we immerse ourselves in once we've reached there.

Measuring the time and distance and efforts to reach there will only make us feel discouraged. Just the aim needs to be our goal. And hope is what we carry with us a lamp. Determination needs to be our shield against every downfall and perseverance that force that keeps us driving to our heart's desire!!